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Sex Ed 102 Q&A: Can You Get Pregnant From Anal Sex?

Contraception, Health & Wellness, Q & A, Safer Sex

For all of my viewers who have sent questions regarding this subject I thought I would finally answer it in video format so that there is no confusion.

Can you get pregnant from Anal Sex? – For the most part no, you cannot. However nothing is impossible.

Yes, but it is rare. If semen or pre-ejaculate (pre-cum) comes into contact with the opening of the vagina or the vulva, the sperm may survive and travel up the vaginal canal, through the cervix, uterus and fallopian tubes. If a girl or woman is ovulating, or about to ovulate, there is a possibility that the sperm can fertilize an egg in the fallopian tubes, resulting in pregnancy. The best way to keep sperm from fertilizing an egg cell is to make sure that no semen gets below the belly button or above the thighs.

Quick Anatomy Lesson

The anus is part of the digestive system which begins in a person’s mouth, and ends with the anus. Since the reproductive system and the digestive system are not connected, sperm that enters anally cannot swim through the body to reach an egg in the reproductive system. Pretty straight forward, right?

That said, you CAN get pregnant from the after effects; if semen or pre-ejaculate seeps, leaks, or drips from the anus and manages to make contact with the vulva/vaginal opening, there’s a chance the sperm can survive and make its way up the vaginal canal, through the cervix, uterus, and finally end up in the fallopian tubes, and if the person is ovulating/about to ovulate, it could theoretically fertilize an egg. Again, the likely chance it would happen is minimal.

To minimize any chance of this happening, I’d suggest you engage in safer sex practices like using a condom during anal intercourse.

With so many b.s. myths floating around I’m stressing that you please take this opportunity to learn about your bodies, how they work, the reproductive systems of the female and safe sex so that you can answer these questions with common sense based on the information that you already have.

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Review: Tongue Teaser Vibrating Tongue Toy

Couples Toys & Games, Product Reviews

After many messages from my viewers in regard to vibrating tongue rings I found something even better, the Tongue Teaser, a vibrating tongue toy!

For those of you wondering what makes it better well let me tell you;

It doesn’t require that you have to have your tongue pierced and therefor can be used by anyone.
It’s powerful, but doesn’t cause any strain on your eyes, tongue or teeth. (I know people that used metal vibrating tongue rings – I’ve done it- that have accidentally chipped their tooth in the heat of the moment. No worries about that since it’s soft and supple silicone)
It doesn’t hurt – at all! As someone who has used to have her tongue pierced and has tried numerous products I can honestly say this was the most comfortable…and you don’t even have to have your tongue pierced to use it.
It’s easy to clean and care for. Since it’s made of 100% silicone you can very easily wash it with soap and water (the outside not the vibrator) and rinse it well. Fortunately there aren’t any grooves in the product that could collect bacteria either.
It’s very easy to use. Unlike tongue rings that need to be screwed in (which can hurt to put in and remove), you just simply slip it over your tongue and you’re good to go!
It’s very affordable! ShopSexEd102.com sells them for only $4.35, so for those of you that are looking for something reasonably priced just to try, this might be a perfect product.

For those of you that are interested or would like to purchase the Tongue Teaser, it can be found on my website where shopping for sex toys is fun, safe, easy and your privacy is guaranteed!

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Review: How To Make Your Own Adult Video

Couples Toys & Games, Product Reviews

After recently watching Zack and Miri make a porno, I couldn’t help but finally make a video on an amazing book that I picked up a while ago to review for you all – Make Your Own Adult Video by Petra Joy w/ David Bramwell.

Not only was the book well written, easy to follow, fun, insightful and a quick read, but it was also wonderfully laid out with pictures to help demonstrate the way cameras work and the subtle differences lighting, angles and other effect can make.

When it comes to the step by step process of making an adult video this book does a fantastic job of allowing you to make quality and professional looking material while also encouraging you to fully customize it to your specific tastes.

All in all, this is one of the most informative and fun books I have ever seen on the subject and I encourage those of you who are interested in making an adult film to check it out.

MAKE YOUR OWN ADULT VIDEO:
“the couples guide to making sensual home movies, from setting the scene to making the scene”
by Petra Joy w/ David Bramwell.

The chapters~

1.)Setting up
*the cast
*the budget
*props
*tricks of the trade

2.)What’s your style?
*themes and genres
*scripts and storylines
*classic plots

3.)Videography
*principles of photography
*composition
*camerawork
*beyond shooting
*video equipment
*lighting
*sound

4.)Setting the Scene
*planning and preparation
*the bedroom
*the kitchen
*the bathroom
*the living room
*the office
*out and about

5.)Still Photography
*uses of photography
*what you need
*creative techniques

6.)Post Production
*editing
*storage and archiving
*going commercial
*protecting yourself

7.) References and Resources
*top ten tips
*glossary
*bibliography/videography
*index
*credits

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Beginners Guide: How To Give A Blow Job

How To's, Safer Sex, Sex Ed 102

What is oral sex?

Oral sex involves giving or receiving oral stimulation (i.e. sucking or licking) to the genitalia. Fellatio (also known as a ‘blow job’) is the term used to describe oral sex given to someone with a penis. Cunnilingus is the term which describes oral sex given to someone with a vagina.

Is oral sex common practice?

Many studies have shown that oral sex is practiced by men and women of all ages, both gay and straight. It is a very common practice and may be performed on its own, or before or after sexual intercourse.

Is oral sex safe?

A number of studies have demonstrated that oral sex is not necessarily safe sex. Both giving and receiving oral sex can lead to the transmission of sexually transmitted infections (also known as STIs or STDs).

Which STDs are transmitted via oral sex?

The most common STD transmitted via oral sex is herpes. There are two main types of herpes simplex virus (HSV): HSV type 1 and HSV type 2. HSV type 1 usually causes cold sores around the mouth, while HSV type 2 generally causes genital herpes sores. However, oral sex can sometimes cause HSV type 1 around the mouth to be transmitted to the genital area causing genital sores in the other person. This process can also work in reverse, with HSV-2 transmitted from the genitals to the mouth of the other person during oral sex, though this is rare.

The human papillomavirus that causes genital warts can very occasionally be transmitted through oral sex, causing warts to appear around or inside the mouth in anyone who has given oral sex to an infected person.

Gonorrhea has been shown to infect the throat of some people who have given oral sex to an infected person. This infection can then be passed on from the throat to the genitals of any future partners. The body will almost always naturally clear the throat of the bacteria that cause gonorrhea within three months, although infections in the genital tract will usually require antibiotics to cure. Chlamydia can also infect the throat in a similar way, although this is less common. Both infections may result in a sore throat, although many people will remain asymptomatic and unaware they are infected.

Syphilis may be passed on during oral sex if a person’s mouth comes into contact with an open sore or a skin rash caused by the infection.

Gastrointestonal infections and parasites may be passed on during oral contact with the anus.

The Hepatitis A virus is also contained in human faeces, and may be passed on during anal-oral sex.

Hepatitis B is contained in sexual fluids and blood and may be transmitted during oral sex in a similar way to HIV (see below).

Hepatitis C is generally only contained in blood, and will only be transmitted if there is blood present during oral sex.

Can HIV be transmitted during oral sex?

HIV can pose a small risk for both the active (person giving the oral stimulation) and receptive (person receiving oral stimulation) partner.

Transmission from an HIV positive receptive partner to an HIV negative active partner may occur when the active partner gets sexual fluid (semen or vaginal fluid) or blood (from menstruation) or a wound somewhere in the genital or anal region) into a cut, sore, ulcer or area of inflammation somewhere in their mouth or throat. The linings of the mouth and throat are very resistant to viral infections such as HIV, so infection is unlikely if they are healthy.

Transmission from an HIV positive active partner to an HIV negative receptive partner is generally believed to be less common. This is because HIV is normally only present in saliva in very low levels that are not sufficient to cause infection. The only risk in this scenario would be from bleeding wounds or gums in the HIV positive person’s mouth or on their lips, which may transfer blood onto the mucous membranes of the other person’s genitals or anus, or into any cuts or sores they may have. Hepatitis C can also be transmitted this way.

How do I protect myself and my partner during oral sex?

The already low risk of becoming infected with HIV from oral sex can be reduced still further by using condoms. Flavoured condoms are available for those who don’t like the taste of latex or spermicide. For cunnilingus or analingus, plastic food wrap, a condom cut open, or a dental dam (a thin square of latex) can serve as a physical barrier to prevent transmission of HIV and many other STDs.

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Review: Striptease Kit

Couples Toys & Games, Product Reviews

While out shopping one night I cam across one of the cutest, most playful, and definitely fun little kits I’ve ever seen – the STRIPTEASE KIT!

Take it off . . . take it all off! You don’t need a brass pole in your living room, you don’t need to be a professional dancer, and you certainly don’t need a ‘perfect’ body. All you need are a few key moves, a couple of props, and a little practice.

This saucy little kit holds all the accoutrements and information you’ll need to pull off a tantalizing ‘tease. You’ll be vamping it up in no time at all.

Includes: 48-page illustrated guide, 2 red sequined pasties with adhesive, Sheer black scarf, Body glitter, 10 fold-out cards with fully illustrated routines like the Go-Go Dancer, Hot Executive, School Girl etc.

Happy Stripping! 😉

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