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Sex Ed 102 DVD Set

I’m hoping to make a Sex Ed 102 DVD Set, if you’d like to help or want more info please check out;

The set would include;

Disc 1: Sex Ed 102: For The Girls
– a disc covering the female sexual anatomy, how it changes during
puberty, female hygiene, what’s “normal” and what to expect, as well as
the sexual response cycle as it relates to females.

Disc 2: Sex Ed 102: For The Boys
– a disc covering the male sexual anatomy, how it changes during puberty,
male hygiene, what’s “normal” and what to expect, as well as the sexual
response cycle as it relates to males.

Disc 3: Sex Ed 102: Birth Control
– from condoms to abstinence and everything in between. This disc will cover how pregnancy occurs and show how each of the methods of protection work, how to use them properly, what they are made of, pro’s and con’s of each, how they are obtained and trouble shooting issues (side effects) that often come with the product.

Disc 4: Sex Ed 102: STD’s & Protection
– a disc that will include all of the information regarding STD’s, methods of testing, symptoms, treatment options, methods of protection, how to obtain them and ways of being ‘sexually active’ that reduce the risks of transmission.

Disc 5: Sex Ed 102: Methods of Arousal
– this disc will focus on the “how to’s” of sexual exploration including; masturbation for females and males, oral sex techniques, manual stimulation of a partner, sexual positions (including pro’s and cons of each), massage techniques for stimulation, and foreplay ideas. There would be no graphic sexual images, instead, instructed demonstrations using props.

Disc 6: Sex Ed 102: Busting the Myths
– from tales of old (you can get pregnant from swimming backward) to myths of today (you can get pregnant from oral sex), this disk with debunk the most common myths associated with sexual intercourse and provide the truthful answers people need to make informed decisions.

Bonus Disc 7: Sex Ed 102: ‘Toys’ and Games
– this disk will teach the viewer what to look for in a sexual wellness product, how to choose one, the different materials used in creating such products, what’s safe for use and what’s not, how to use specific products, special precautions to keep in mind that will help a product last longer and a review of Kara_Sutra’s current top 10 products (with a coupon for 15%)

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Blooper Reel #2

For those of you that kept asking me to make another video that has all the moments that didn’t make it to air, this goes out to you! 🙂  Enjoy!!

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Fear Is A Wonderful Thing…

I recently sat down for dinner with a a few friends who are going through (*or are about to go through) some major transitions…where life is concerned…where love is concerned.

And who have expressed that they are terrified!

Fear is a funny thing; it strikes at the heart of you, sometimes when your not expecting it, other times when you are in full awareness of its presence…feeling it in the pit of your stomach, deep, churning, numbing and so uneasy.(*very close to the butterflies you first feel when struck with love and it all seems so out of your control.  Interesting isn’t it, how fear and love feel relatively the same on some basic physical level?)

Life is scary. Period.

Love is scary. Period.

But that is life and that is love. More importantly, that is where it is our responsibility to choose…to actively choose, what we want to experience and how we want to grow as individuals, as humans, as beings.

The whole of our existence is based on choices.

The whole of our existence is based on free will; free will over our thoughts, and words, as well as our actions.

On that note, our greatest choice is to choose between love and fear, as one cannot exist in the presence of the other. While we may believe they can co-exist, we cannot choose both…it’s an either/or situation…there is no inbetween.

It is like light and darkness; if light is present, darkness disappears…if the light is absent, darkness appears…thus, the choice between love and fear is the most basic, and the most important, choice we have.

I don’t know when it happened, but somewhere in this mess of time people forgot one key thing; that they have control, that they are the ones who are making the choices, they are the ones who are in each and every moment actively deciding their destiny…in which way they wish to grow…and which path they are choosing to experience.

That is whats it’s all about anyways…the growing; placing yourself in situations that force you to break old habits, detach from old ways, heal hurts and learn from new experiences what and who you are…or have been…and are going to be.

But that in and of it self is a choice…one must choose to grow.

One must be willing to fully embrace the chance that they may “fail”…

scary thought, huh?

That’s part of the challenge…in order to grow, one must be willing to fully let go…to relinquish control…to surrender to the unknown…and trust…that whatever is meant to happen…will…that what ever the outcome…it was for their own highest good…their own personal good…that it was a lesson set out specifically for them, that they choose to learn from…that they choose to experience…that they choose.

Even if it isn’t what they wanted…or thought they wanted…in that moment of deciding.

This is where I find it gets tricky…we all have the active choice to choose…to decide for ourselves which path we are going to walk down…which emotions we are going to experience…which fears we are going to overcome…and which higher good we are going to learn from…however, in that we must be willing to let go of the outcome…of the decided plan for things…of the expectation.

That’s where I think it gets scary…where the fear comes from…where the lessons to be learned live.

Expectation…a big word…with an even bigger height to fall from.

It is those expectations that don’t allow for the room to grow… instead starting a ball rolling out of control…placing bars around us that suffocate and confine our souls.

They cause us to be blinded…to become confused…to see things not as they actually are…or could be…instead seeing them for what we would have them be…because its what we want.

Then, when we don’t get them, or they don’t turn out the way we expected…we end up disappointed; in the situation, in life, and in ourselves…creating a vicious circle of finding another source of expectation, another way that things could/would/should/be…another set of hopes or pre-programmed roads that we think things will go down…even when our own better judgment tells us not to.

Even when we know better.


it’s easier then letting go of the control we want to have over life…

it’s easier then chancing heartache and sadness…

it’s easier to hope for the best…and as such…expect it…

…simply…without all of the pretty grammarical big words…

it’s just that…easier.

Easier to shy away, hide, deny, separate, run, cling…to stop ourselves from falling…to back away from what scares and/or challenges us…to be afraid of the one thing we all desire and yearn for…

to love…and be loved in return.

Therein lies the most important questions of all; how do we let go of expectations?…how do we not hope for an outcome that we so desire?…how do we place our trust in the universe? (wholly and completely)…and how do we allow ourselves to have faith that it will all work out in the end…when all we are feeling is the fear?

I guess it all comes down to choice…


Which will you choose?…now…in five minutes…in 2 hours…tomorrow…

It is an ongoing decision…to choose…to live…to love…and don’t worry when you “slip and fall”, it’s simply a reminder that you do indeed have a choice.

So which will you choose, this time? And next? And next? And next? …

If you ask me, we might as well choose Love and be Love, since that’s who we really are…at our core…and all we’re searching to find anyways.

As for the fall, don’t worry too much about it, there is always someone there to catch you <3

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Sex Ed 102 Q&A: Do We Need Condoms For First Time Sex?


I’m dating this guy and we’ve been talking about having sex. It’s going to be my first time but he told me that he doesn’t like to use a condom. He just pulls out before he cums, which makes me nervous. He also said that I shouldn’t need a condom since it’s my first time. I don’t know what to do :/ any suggestions?


I can’t tell you the number of times I’ve heard this from my readers and viewers. Even with all of the slight variations, my answer will likely always be the same: DO NOT have sex with him unless he uses a condom. It’s your body and you have every right to put your foot down and tell him no glove no love!

You said this is your first time… I think it might help if I share a story with you;

One of my best friends decided to have sex with a guy she had a crush on for years. She had always promised herself that she would either wait until she was in a relationship with someone she loved for a year, or until the “right” guy came along. Well, the guy that she had a crush on finally started to pay her attention, they dated for a month or so and she decided that she didn’t want to wait, that she would lose her virginity to him since he was “special” to her and she “didn’t want to lose him”. He told her (when they were about to have sex) that he didn’t like condoms and never used them. That he would rather pull out since it was “pretty much the same thing”. She didn’t want to tell him no, nor did she want to “chicken out” at the last second.  So she went along with it, he did pull out as he said he would and they carried on like normal.

A week after they had sex she noticed some discharge that wasn’t there before as well a foul odour. Not only that but a pain or raw feeling in/around her vagina. She went to the doctor and it turned out that her crush of 6 years had given her, the very first time she had sex, and STI. I’m sure you can only imagine her shock, horror, embarrassment and frustration with the situation. Needless to say they broke up a week later.

The moral of the story is this: it doesn’t matter who they are or how long you know them, how good of a person they are, or what they tell you, ANYONE can get an STD/STI. I’m not saying this to scare you, just to make sure you’re aware of the potential consequences of your actions and choices.

Tell him to wear a condom not just for you, but for his own safety. If he refuses then obviously he wasn’t worth your time or your virginity.

I’m sure reading that was one thing, but to actually stand up for your point of view can be a lot harder and I do understand that.

My suggestion is this; when the topic of sex comes up take the opportunity to let him know that your not comfortable with the chances of getting pregnant or an STD/STI.

If he says he doesn’t have any STD/STI’s, ask him when he was tested last and that there is no way of knowing for sure without being tested. He may get mad or insulted, but in reality if that’s the way he is going to choose to react, rather then understand your wanting your first time to be a good and safe one, he doesn’t deserve to share that experience with you.

He may also tell you that pulling out is safe and that you wont get pregnant, the chances are very low. All I have to say to that is that it takes ONE sperm to reach an egg, and I also suggest you ask him if hes ready to be a father should that happen?

Don’t be afraid to stand up for your own experiences in life and trust that you are the only one will be looking out for your own best interest. This is your body, and your life. Take care of it.

Also, on a side note never underestimate the load of bullshit a person will say when turned on and wanting to get laid. If you don’t feel safe or comfortable take that to heart and trust that you feel that way for a reaon.

If this is your first time, why would you want to chance it being your worst time?

hope that helped


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