During my time making videos and offering advice there’s been one thing that has never failed to amaze me; the lack of education and knowledge where sex is concerned. As such, I have created a list of sex guides that I think are necessary to empower you and your partner(s) so you’re well prepared when you choose to be intimate.
If you've stopped by this page it's probably because you're looking to pick up some tried and true little "secrets" or special moves that will please your partner, not only that but also help you feel more confident in your approach. For those of you that are experienced but feel in need of a refresher on the basics, I truly hope that these sex guides will reacquaint you with information you may have forgotten, as well as guide you on becoming a better lover.
If you’re just starting on your journey and are curious about sex and sexuality, I ask that you be like sponges; absorbing as much information as you can and storing it for future use when you’re ready to engage in responsible behavior. Sex is not a game and comes with consequences. Also, please keep in mind that the most important factor in being a great lover is communication. Being able to express your needs as well as hear what your partner likes and dislikes, then meet those requests will do more for your sex life then I could ever offer in advice.
That being said, I hope that the information presented empowers you to make well informed decisions with the safety of you and your partner(s) in mind.
Sex Guides, Tips, & Advice
Redefining Virginity
We often hear about 'virginity' and being a 'virgin', but in today's society what does that even mean? Let's redefine the term.
Is Masturbation Bad?
With so many myths floating around about masturbation, it's time we finally talked honestly about all of the benefits.
Beginners Guide: The Hymen
Contrary to popular belief hymens don't actually 'pop'. Learn everything you need to know about the hymen here.
Beginners Guide: The Clitoris
The clitoris is a complex and highly sensitive organ, often misunderstood or underrepresented in discussions about cis female anatomy. Although there's no direct role in reproduction, the clitoris allows for many pleasurable experiences.
Beginners Guide: Clitoral Stimulation
For those curious about clitoral stimulation techniques, including tips for stimulating it during intercourse, as well as a few other facts you may not know, this video should help you find out what will work best for you.
Beginners Guide: G-Spot Stimulation
A guide to help answer questions about the g-spot while also focusing on some of my favourite products. Hopefully the information presented will make the process of finding the g-spot and stimulating it easier for everyone.
Sex: Your First Time
First times can be scary and overwhelming. But they don't have to be. This post has everything you need to guide you towards an amazing experience.
First Time Tips: For The 'Girls'
Tips and suggestions I think every 'female' should know before having sex, hopefully they'll help make the experience the best it can be for everyone.
First Time Tips: For The 'Guys'
Tips and suggestions I think every 'male' should know before having sex, hopefully they'll help make the experience the best it can be for everyone.
Painful Sex: How To Fix It
There are a number of reasons sex can be painful. From general reasons to specific causes, this post explores them and offers suggestions to make it comfortable.
Beginners Guide: Shower Sex
When it comes to having sex in the shower wetter isn't always better. If you're looking to have a great experience drop the soap (it's not lube!) and read on.
Beginners Guide: Period Sex
Having sex on your period can be messy or embarrassing, but it can also be exceptionally fulfilling and enjoyable if you know what you're doing.
Beginners Guide: Queefing
Vaginal farts (a.k.a queefs) are a totally normal and natural bodily function that anyone with a vagina will experience at one point or another. Here's everything you need to know.
Beginners Guide: Tit Jobs
No matter the cup size, tit jobs can be a fun and pleasurable way to explore and excite both you and your partner. Follow these tips for a guaranteed good time.
Beginners Guide: Blow Jobs
Giving a blow job isn't that difficult, but being good at it (and enjoying it) can take some practice. This video will teach you to give one your partner will remember.
Beginners Guide: 69'ing
Sometimes awkward, often mutually satisfying, mastering the art of 69'ing just requires a little bit of practice and know how.
Beginners Guide: Kegel Exercises
Kegel exercises have been known to help women reach a g-spot orgasm, make orgasms more powerful, improve sexual arousal, and possibly help make female ejaculation a possibility.
Beginners Guide: Safe Butt Play
Many are afraid of butt play for a variety of reasons be it discomfort or embarassment, but with a little bit of prepping and advice it can be fun and pleasurable.
Beginners Guide: 5 Easy Sex Positions
Whether you’re new to sex or simply looking to add variety to your experiences, understanding different positions can help you and your partner connect more deeply and discover what feels best for both of you..
