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After two years of questions from viewers about their penis, whether size matters, and how to make it larger, I thought I’d offer a couple product reviews that might potentially help.

Before we move on, I just want to emphasize there is nothing wrong with having a penis that’s not the reported average. There are many people that prefer something not so big, and considering over 70% of cis women require clitoral stimulation to achieve an orgasm, having a smaller penis may just come in handy, especially since it’s better at stimulating the g-spot.

Having said that, I realize there is nothing I can say to make you feel better about your size.

So instead, I’m choosing to offer help the only other way I know how; by educating my viewers and readers about some of the options available. Like I’ve said time and time again, you’ve gotta learn to work with what you’ve got. And when that isn’t doing the trick, sometimes accessorizing might just be the way to go.

What are penis extensions and sleeves?

Penis extensions are intimate accessories designed to enhance sexual pleasure for both the wearer and their partner. These sleeves fit over the penis and can come in a variety of shapes, styles, sizes, and textures. They’re typically used to add extra girth, length, or stimulating textures during intercourse, while some versions include vibrating elements or internal textures for the wearer’s pleasure.

When looking for a penis extension or sleeve some of the following questions are worth considering so you know what you’re looking for when buying:

– what type of experience do you wish to have?

– how long do you want the product to last?

– are you doing this for yourself, your partner, or both?

– what size increase are you looking for (they usually vary from 1 inch to 4 inches in length)?

– how much are you willing to spend?

– does discretion matter?

Whether you’re looking to explore new sensations, spice up your intimate experiences, or address personal concerns like erectile issues or premature ejaculation, penis extensions can be a helpful and exciting option.

How Penis Extensions & Sleeves Work

Penis sleeves are typically made from soft, flexible materials such as silicone, TPE (thermoplastic elastomer), or skin like materials that provide a comfortable fit. The sleeve slides over the erect penis, fitting snugly to stay in place during intercourse.

Some penis extensions have a closed tip, adding length or girth without exposing the head of the penis, while others have an open tip to allow for direct stimulation of the glans. Many sleeves are textured with ridges, bumps, or nubs on the outside to enhance pleasure for the partner during penetration.

Additionally, some penis extensions come with added features like vibrators or rings that stimulate the wearer, allowing both partners to enjoy heightened sensations.

They can also provide a solution for individuals who experience premature ejaculation or want to last longer during sex, as the sleeve can act as a barrier, reducing sensitivity.

Realistic

Realistic extensions are usually hollow tube like structures that are placed over the end of the penis and slid down until the penis fills the space (pictured left). Most are crafted out of ‘skin like’ materials, be it Real Feel or otherwise. You’ll also find them made of silicone, PVC, and plastic (though the last two aren’t suggested as they’re not body safe).

Skin like versions tend to be a tad pricier, aren’t very discrete, require cornstarch or renew powder to maintain their texture, can be difficult to clean since they’re porous, may slide off during use, and are more prone to tearing over time.

Latex Roll On

The second type of penis extension is made of latex (pictured right) and is designed to be placed on the head of the penis and rolled down like a condom. These tend to be a little less bulky than the ‘realistic’ versions, are easier to apply, far more discrete, and a lot cheaper. On the down side they tend not to last very long and are only good with condoms if large amounts of lube are used.

When using a latex roll-on penis extender, it’s important to pair it with a water-based lubricant to ensure a smooth and enjoyable experience without compromising the material’s integrity.

Hollow Strap On Extension

Like the others, these penis extensions are hollow to accommodate a penis, however they’re held in place by a harness, large strap of elastic, or other adjustable material that either fits under the balls (pictured below left), around the waist, hips, or a combination of waist and between the thighs (pictured right).

Although they’re the most ‘sturdy’, they may not be most comfortable since there is limited squish or give to them. Separate from that, the elastic strap or harness itself may be uncomfortable due to the way it rubs on the skin.

Unlike the other sleeves, which simply slide onto the penis, wearing a strap-on penis sleeve or extension involves a few simple steps to ensure comfort and proper fit.

Tips for Using Strap-On Extensions:

First, make sure you have a compatible harness designed to hold the strap-on sleeve securely. Many harnesses are adjustable to fit various body sizes. If the sleeve is separate from the harness, attach it according to the manufacturer’s instructions. Ensure it’s positioned correctly and snugly within the harness. Put the harness on by slipping it over your hips, waist, or thighs depending on the design. Adjust the straps for a secure and comfortable fit, and move around to ensure it doesn’t slip or shift during use.

To help reduce friction and enhances pleasure, apply a generous amount of body safe lubricant to the sleeve and the area where penetration will occur (vagina or anus). Have your partner assume a comfortable position, and gently guide the sleeve into your partner, allowing them to control the depth and pace to ensure comfort.  Focus on pleasure for both you and your partner, exploring different angles and movements as desired. Remember, communication is key – check in with each other about what feels good and adjust as needed.

Once you’re done, carefully remove the strap-on and penis extension, then clean both according to the manufacturer’s care instructions.

Final Thoughts

Penis extensions and sleeves offer a unique and versatile way to explore new dimensions of intimacy, bringing both partners closer together through shared sensations and enhanced pleasure. Whether you’re looking to increase length, girth, or introduce stimulating textures, these tools provide an exciting, non-invasive option for experimentation and connection in the bedroom.

By choosing the right fit, maintaining open communication, and ensuring proper use and care, penis extensions and sleeves can transform your sexual experience, allowing for greater confidence, satisfaction, and a deeper bond with your partner. Ultimately, these products are about enhancing mutual enjoyment, and embracing the opportunities they offer can lead to a more fulfilling and adventurous sex life.

Looking to buy a quality penis extension or sleeve? Here’s a list of my favourite stores that carry lots of body safe options. Feel free to shop around to make sure you’re getting the best deals and sales; Pinkcherry, SheVibe, Babeland, and SexToy(dot)Com.

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