Using Male Masturbators For Better Sex

If I were to mention dildos, vibrators, or a number of other sex toys designed for female pleasure many of you would know exactly what I’m talking about. And if I asked you to describe how these toys work, you would likely be able to. Even if you’re not 100% certain of the different types within each category, or the specifics of working parts, you’d at least have a general idea.  With a growing emphasis on female empowerment and exploring one’s sexuality it’s become common knowledge.

Now what if I were to ask you about a masturbation sleeve, or more specifically, a blowjob machine? I know from experience far less people know what these are.  The name obviously gives away a bit of the mystery, but how these machines and sleeves actually work, the features they provide, and the benefits to health they offer is sadly not well known. While socieity has spent a lot of time focusing on female pleasure, little has been done to encourage using male masturbators for better sex. Hopefully this post will work toward changing that.

How do male sex sleeves work?

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There are many types of male sex toys on the market; from basic sleeves to the well known Fleshlight, automatic machines like the Autoblow 2 to virtual reality blowjob machines. Rather than overwhelming you, let’s start with simple masturbation sleeves.

Masturbation sleeves are soft, skin-like sleeves in which the penis is inserted. Sometimes they have a hard outer casing like the Fleshlight, other times you hold the sleeve itself (these are called ‘pocket pussies‘).  Once inserted, simply use your hand to stroke it back and forth. The suction, realistic material, internal texturing, and variety of stimulation, mixed with a really good lube, offer a much more intense experience than just using your hand.

If you’re looking for something that feels like a real blowjob, then you’re going to want a masturbator that’s automatic like the Autoblow 2 (pictured right). Simply slide your cock inside, press a button, and let the machine do all the work for you. You get to control the speed, and depending on the machine, the suction too.

Whether automatic or manual in nature, you can choose between several different sleeve options which include varied textures, tightness and looks; from realistic pussy lips or anus, to beautiful mouths, or sleek and modern designs that look more like a new tech gadget than a sex toy. Whatever your taste, there is definitely something on the market to match it!

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You’re probably asking yourself, why don’t I just get the real thing?

Wouldn’t that be nice… just go get a blowjob whenever you please. Even if you’re in a relationship with someone who loves giving head, that doesn’t mean they’re always in the mood. Male sex toys are always ready to go! But that isn’t the only benefit. Whether you’re single or in a relationship, male masturbators are a sure way to make your sex life better.

Using Male Sex Toys For Better Sex, Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit1. Increase your stamina

This is a huge one. Believe it or not, male sex toys like the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit (pictured left) can be used to increase your stamina. At first it try seeing how long you can last before ejaculating. Don’t be discouraged if you barely even get going the first time. Then try get yourself ALMOST to climax, and when you’re close, stop. Wait a moment and do it again. See how many times you can withold before ejaculating. Not only will you build your stamina, but the resulting orgasm will be incredibly intense.

2. Get creative.

Whether you’re using the male masturbator with a partner or on your own, they’re a great way to experiment with different positions, locations, and even stroking rhythms to see how you can reach the best orgasm. And then of course, bring these new ideas and learnings into partner play for even more excitement.

3. Intense pleasure & Control

Sex with a partner is usually a great experience. Having said that, there is nothing like having complete control over the amount of pleasure you recieve. Male sex toys allow you to not only explore and experiment with your sexuality, they also allow you to do exactly what you want, how you want, when you want. No having to check in, no worry about whether they’re having a good time. You can go for as long or as short of a period of time as you like, thrusting as hard or slow as you need. Your pleasure is yours to control.

4. Great for long distance couples

This is huge for any couple dealing with the struggles of a long-distance relationship. Not only do sex toys provide much-needed sexual release when you can’t be together, but there are toys like the Kiiroo (pictured right) that are designed to interact with each other over long distances so it’s like you’re in the same room together. If you’d prefer a similar product, but one for solo use definitely check out the Kiroo Titan.

5. Pleasure is always just an arm’s reach away

Yes, I already touched on this but when you need a good sexual release and you’re bored of using your hand in the same old way, sex toys for men come in handy!

A few last words…

If you haven’t already tried a male masturbation toy your interest should definitely be peaked. But in order to get the most out of your play session, here are a few tips and techniques:

  • Always use lube. Very important if you don’t want a chafed dick. Use water-based lubricant to make sure you don’t ruin the toy.
  • Add visual or physical stimulation. If you’re on your own, put on some porn. If you’re with a partner, porn may or may not be an option, but allow them to take control, or to satisfy you in other ways while you’re using the toy.
  • Buy quality materials. For the most part, you get what you pay for. Do your research and buy quality so you don’t end up hurting yourself.
  • And of course, last but definitely not least…. have fun!

The world of male sex toys has been growing exponentially in recent years, and it’s time to take advantage. There are so many wonderful pleasure tools out there waiting for you.

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