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Two of the questions I’m asked most often, especially by couples who have been together for a while, are “how can I have more fun in the bedroom?” and “we’ve been together so long that the sex has become mundane, is there anything I can use to incorporate in our sex life that might help to spice it up a bit?”
While there are a lot of answers to those questions, I personally think one of the most fun ways of adding some “spice” to the bedroom is to take some time perusing online and picking out some sexy but fun goodies to play with. They don’t have to be expensive or “luxurious”, just something both of you would like to try.
That said, since there are hundreds upon hundreds of products on the market I thought I’d share my fave items, j
Products featured in the video:
Sexy Vouchers & “Scratch & Wins”
Sexy couples’ vouchers or coupons are a fun and intimate way to add excitement and spontaneity to a relationship. These vouchers and coupon books often include a variety of playful or romantic activities that partners can “redeem” from each other, such as a sensual massage, a date night, or a fantasy role-play session.
They allow couples to explore their desires in a lighthearted way, making it easy to express and act on romantic or sexual fantasies without pressure. Sexy vouchers, coupons, and couples scratch cards are not only a creative gift idea but also a means of deepening connection, encouraging communication, and keeping the spark alive in the relationship. They can be tailored to each couple’s unique dynamic, making them a personalized and thoughtful gesture.
If you want to add a little extra fun try slipping them into your partners pocket, wallet, purse etc then call or text and ask if they found their ‘surprise’.
Furry Handcuffs and Blindfold
Furry handcuffs are a playful and visually appealing addition to bedroom activities, often used to introduce light bondage or enhance power dynamics in a fun and comfortable way. The soft, plush fur covering the metal cuffs adds a layer of comfort while still maintaining the excitement of restraint, making them ideal for beginners interested in exploring BDSM or couples looking to add variety to their intimate experiences. The fur also reduces the risk of skin irritation or discomfort, allowing users to focus on the sensual experience.
Products like this can add an element of anticipation and trust to play, helping partners deepen their connection and experiment with new levels of intimacy in a safe, consensual manner. They’re easy to use, usually have a safety release lock (so you don’t get stuck), come in a wide variety of colours and types, furry, sparkly, leather, mesh, metal etc, and are relatively inexpensive costing anywhere between $4 and $30.
Another great addition to bedroom play is the use of masks. Of course when it comes to this type of play you can always get creative and use something from around the house rather then making a new purchase. I’ve often found that things like scarves, neck ties, sleeping masks, and towels can be used for limiting sight. Just make sure that if you’re using something from around the house that you are able to take it off in a hurry, should you need to.
Erotic Dice and Cards
If you’re looking for something relatively inexpensive, very easy to use, quite discreet (considering you can hide them in a drawer, box, glass or another other small compartment) the inclusion of erotic dice is possibly the best fit! They come in a variety of options, can be used when combined with another set and are usually very cheap costing anywhere from $3 to $30.
As for fun and/or erotic card games, there are many on the market that are specifically designed to bring fun, playfulness, “spice” and something new to the bedroom…or any other room in the house. Like most things on the market I suggest you shop around until you find a deck (and game) that you really like, both in regard to quality of the cards and what they are intended to be used for.
*One quick suggestion when it comes to cards, look for ones that are laminated as the spilling of beverages or lube can often ruin a set.
Flirt, Sex Up The Night Game
*UPDATE: sadly this kit was discontinued a year ago and I’m legitimately sad about it.
I purchased this little kit quite a few years back and totally fell in love with it!
Not only is it fun, easy to use, inexpensive (considering everything you get), playful and creative but it’s also packed into a fun little case that you can use for storage.
The kit contains 4 cards with a synopsis of the girl you are and the scene you’re going to act out.
For each scene there is a prop that comes with to help get you into character and your partner in the mood.
For those of you that are interested in it or just want more info before purchasing it, I previously did a video review that can be found here for your viewing enjoyment.
Last, but definitely not least is the Striptease Kit: everything you need to take it off!
You don’t need a brass pole in your living room, you don’t need to be a professional dancer, and you certainly don’t need a perfect body. All you need are a few key moves, a couple of props, and a little practice. This saucy little kit holds all the accoutrements and information you’ll need to pull off a tantalizing ‘tease. You’ll be vamping it up in no time at all.
Includes: 48-page illustrated guide, 2 red sequined pasties with adhesive, Sheer black scarf, Body glitter, 10 fold-out cards with fully illustrated routines.
Personally I love this kit! I can`t say enough about it and recommend it to pretty much anyone that is interested in dancing for their partner.
The kit is fun, easy to use, gives you great ideas and even comes with props to help you have more fun! What I like most is the little book it comes with that’s filled with information to help make you feel comfortable in your own skin and works wonders for building confidence. Since I got mine I’ve had hours of fun with it and still love it like it was the first day I opened the box! Seriously, you wont be disappointed!
To watch my video review of the Striptease kit check this page.
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