Two of the questions I’m asked most often, especially by couples who have been together for a while, are “how can I have more fun in the bedroom?” and “we’ve been together so long that the sex has become mundane, is there anything I can use to incorporate in our sex life that might help to spice it up a bit?”
While there are a lot of answers to those questions, I personally think one of the most fun ways of adding some “spice” to the bedroom is to take some time perusing online sex shops and picking out some goodies to play with. They don’t have to be expensive or “luxurious”, just something both of you would like to try.
That said, since there are hundreds upon hundreds of products on the market I thought I’d share my fave items, j
Sexy Vouchers & “Scratch & Wins”
There are many playful little coupon books and “scratch and wins” on the market that can be found in a wide variety of options at very minimal prices – from $1.32 to $12.00 – very reasonable if you ask me!
If you want to add a little extra fun try slipping them into your partners pocket, wallet, purse etc then call or text and ask if they found their ‘surprise’.
Depending on the type of play you’re looking to get into the addition of Furry or Metal Handcuffs can be quite a bit of fun. They are easy to use, usually have a safety release lock (so you don’t get stuck) come in a wide variety of colors and types – furry, sparkly, leather, mesh, metal – and relatively inexpensive costing anywhere between $4 and $30.
Another great addition to bedroom play is the use of masks. Of course when it comes to this type of play you can always get creative and use something from around the house rather then making a new purchase. I’ve often found that things like scarves, neck ties, pillow cases, sleeping masks, and wide belts can be used for limiting sight. Just make sure that if you’re using something from around the house that you are able to take it off i a hurry, should you need to.
If you’re looking for something relatively inexpensive, very easy to use, quite discreet (considering you can hide them in a drawer, box, glass or another other small compartment) the inclusion of erotic dice is possibly the best fit! They come in a variety of options, can be used when combined with another set and are usually very cheap costing anywhere from $1 to $15.
As for card games, there are many on the market that are specifically designed to bring fun, playfulness, “spice” and something new to the bedroom…or any other room in the house. Like most things on the market I suggest you shop around until you find a deck (and game) that you really like, both in regard to quality of the cards and what they are intended to be used for.
*One quick suggestion when it comes to cards, look for ones that are laminated as the spilling of wine or lube can often ruin a set.
Sex Up The Night Game
*UPDATE: sadly this kit was discontinued a year ago.
I purchased this little kit quite a few years back and totally fell in love with it!
Not only is it fun, easy to use, inexpensive (considering everything you get), playful and creative but it`s also packed into a fun little case that you can use for storage.
The kit contains 4 cards with a synopsis of the girl you are and the scene you`re going to act out.
For each scene there is a prop that comes with to help get you into character and your partner in the mood.
For those of you that are interested in it or just want more info before purchasing it, I previously did a video review that can be found here for your viewing enjoyment.
Last, but definitely not least is the Striptease Kit: everything you need to take it off!
Personally I love this kit! I can`t say enough about it and recommend it to pretty much anyone that is interested in dancing for their partner.
The kit is fun, easy to use, gives you great ideas and even comes with props to help you have more fun!
What I like most is the little book it comes with that`s filled with information to help make you feel comfortable in your own skin and works wonders for building confidence.
Since I got mine I’ve had hours of fun with it and still love it like it was the first day I opened the box! Seriously, you wont be disappointed!
To watch my video review of the Striptease kit check this page.
Other games I personally love and would recommend; Oral Sex Game, Climaxxx Board Game, All Night Love Affair, Sex Board Game, Sex Card Game (lesbian edition), Monogamy: A Hot Affair With Your Partner.
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